When you are not present or when you do not live in the present moment.
When you feel that you are not worth being loved, you need to ‘pay’ or ‘beg’ for others’ love.
When you are in a relationship because you have to! After a certain age, especially if you are a woman, society almost obliges you to find a partner in many cultures. Society beliefs and unwritten rules are well installed in our psyche and can direct our lives unconsciously.
The best way to never lose yourself in the relationship is to build up a better relationship with yourself! In this way, you will never be alone!